Twice every year, we read the Torah’s tochachot, the rebukes found in Behuqotai and Ki Tabo. These are amongst the most terrifying pesukim. In my 30 years of reading the Torah, it doesn’t get any easier. Yet as Rabbi Jonathan Sacks A”H reminds us, rather than threats, these are passionate pleas highlighting the dangers of neglecting G-d and the Torah (Covenant & Conversation, Blessing Life, Ki Tabo, 5763).
In Behuqotai, the suffering comes as a result of deliberate rebellion, an active rejection of G-d and His commandments (Vayiqra 26:15). In Ki Tabo, the cause is far more subtle: “because you did not serve G-d with joy and gladness in the midst of abundance (Debarim 28:47).”
Wait, you mean to tell me that if we do not serve G-d with joy and happiness, we will experience these terrifying things?! If you told me we served idols, killed, stole, or cheated in business, okay, I would understand. Simply not serving G-d from a place of happiness seems like something really miniscule! What does this really mean?
If we look at basic human psychology, when someone experiences hardship, they naturally call out to G-d, praying for relief and better circumstances. However, when a person is enjoying success and proud of his accomplishments, it becomes easy to think he got there on his own, and even easier to not only stop thanking G-d but to forget Him entirely (Debarim 8:11-17). The dangers of prosperity are real. Don’t let your stability cause you to lose your awareness of G-d.
We are lucky to have daily opportunities to maintain our connection with G-d through our tefillot. Beyond our structured prayers, there is also space for something more personal. Speaking to G-d in our own words, in any language that feels natural, even for a few minutes a day, reinforces that relationship. Rabbi Shalom Arush (Garden of Gratitude) emphasizes this idea by suggesting we set aside time daily to speak to G-d directly. An hour may be ideal, but even ten minutes can make a real difference.
G-d wants a relationship with each of us and loves hearing from us. Whether times are good or difficult, or whether your merits are high or low, His door is always open. Take ten minutes daily, thank Him for all that you have and what you don’t, reflect, and ask for what you need. Really, who wouldn’t want the Master of the world in their corner? Truth is, He is already there, ready and waiting, no matter who you are or where you come from. He is waiting. For you.